Let’s write here how Japanese society, habit and people discriminate us!
Japanese low is still based on the classification of male or female, not on individual.
相談 category is for giving/getting advice. If you just want to talk about random things, you should move to 雑談。 Also, who do you mean by ‘us’? LGBT? And what is the point of doing this in English? I’m confused.
Here is for the people who need some advices.
So, you can use here : https://gachirezu.com/index/forums/forum/112
to describe your troubles.
But before that I think you should tell us about your specific information (e.g., You mentioned “us”, but we cannot distinguish your situation such as nationality, age, hair color etc…). In addition, I think not all the people here can use English to answer your question.